bi women are allowed to have complicated feelings about men. they can distrust them, they can talk about their attraction to them, they can do both. however they feel, regardless of their preferences or lack of a preference, they are still bi. they aren’t traitors for being attracted to men, they aren’t less bi if they have negative feelings about men in general. bi women are amazing just as they are, they don’t have to be exactly what others want or expect them to be.