Rule one of fandom: there are some things that only exist for us.
Don’t send actors fics
Don’t give them explicit art ever
Don’t tag them in rpf questions or theories
Don’t try to bring them into fandom drama of any kind
Don’t hold them responsible for what the producers and writers decide
They’re still people. They have private lives, which do not include fandom.
I can’t believe in 2018 we still need to reiterate this
We love actors for the characters they play, and some people tend to forget they’re NOT the characters. It’s their job, never forget that.